SFCitadel

SF Citadel works continuously to bring more kinky and fun-filled events to the San Francisco Area. We've created several unique parties that occur regularly for your pleasure. Below you'll find descriptions and outlines some of our most popular events.

For a full listing of all our events and parties, please check out our calendar.

Most of our specialty parties are held once per quarter unless otherwise specified, often 4 times/year with varying themes for each event.
These types of specialty parties are usually geared towards specific kink segments:

  1. Men-Only - "Mens"
  2. Women-Only - "Eclipse"
  3. All Trans/Queer/LGBT - "TransMission"
  4. Male-Tops/Female-bottoms - "Master's Den"
  5. Female-Tops/Any-bottoms - "Mystique"
  6. Any D/s or M/s relationship - "Locked"
  7. Singles - "Tryst"
  8. TNG / Under-40 - "Bent"
  9. Photograpy Allowed - "Flash"

Several of our Special Events are annual events or seasonal in nature:

  • Folsom Street Fair Parties
  • SF Pride Parties
  • Fandango
  • Primal
  • Valentino's
  • Headbanger's Ball
  • This Shit Will Fuck You Up
  • Post-Dickens' and RenFaire Parties

SF CITADEL MEN'S ONLY EVENTS
The SF Citadel has Mens Only parties and Events. Visit the SF Citadel Men's page at www.sfcitadelmen.org to check the upcoming events.

  • Men's parties are generally held on the second Friday of every month. (However, always check the calendar)

ECLIPSE
(eclipse@sfcitadel.org)
A powerful gathering of Women and Trans perverts…all eager to indulge. The intoxicating energy at Eclipse has become know for it’s intensity and there’s always a surprise to keep our guests on their toes….er knees? In our 2nd year, we’re hotter than ever with fresh music, more presenters, and new themes to help inspire your fantasies! If your in the women’s’ community or ever wanted to get connected, Eclipse if the place to be with our interactive entertainment. Admission is $25 or volunteer just 1 hour for free entry. For more info, to volunteer, or if you’d like to be considered as a presenter or entertainer email eclipse@sfcitadel.org Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax.


TRANSMISSION
(sftransmission@gmail.com)
SF Citadel presents TransMission, a party for transpeople and their allies, hosted by Clint, Asher, sailor and mo. Be you transgender, transexual, MTF, FTM, M2M, F2F, gender queer, gender fluid, gender fucked, gender non-conforming, or simply a friend of transfolks, you are welcome. Bring your toys and your diabolical imaginations, and dress whatever way makes you feel sexy-- fetish, leather, goth, punk, casual, cute, bunny suits, footy PJs, whatever floats your boat! For this party, transpeople are no longer the minority, but instead will rule the dungeon as never before.

We ask you to remember that illegal activity is not tolerated at the San Francisco Citadel. Keep business and pleasure separate, and keep the Citadel fun for everyone!

MASTER'S DEN
(sfmastersden@yahoo.com)
Master's Den is a reoccurring event catering to Male Dominants and female submissives. Revolving themes of Casino, Revelry and Auction allow attendees to celebrate and share the honor and gift of service & submission in an environment of decadence, service and respect.

  • Master's Den: Friday, January 16, 2009
  • Revelry: Friday March 20th, 2009
  • Casino: Friday, June 19th, 2009
  • Auction: Friday, September 18th, 2009
  • Revelry: Friday, November, 20th, 2009

MYSTIQUE
(mystique@sfcitadel.org)
SF Citadel is delighted to present Mystique, San Francisco’s premier event for Dominant Women and those who wish to serve them. Mystique is an inclusive BDSM party for Dominant Women of all varieties to come together in the spirit of community and growth. All bottoms, submissives, and slaves of any orientation are encouraged to attend to experience the mystery and intrigue that Mystique has to offer. Hosted by Miztress Red and DJ Mora

Parties will feature delicious snacks, music, enlightening presentations, house slaves to provide service throughout the evening, the opportunity to be formally introduced into the community, and other surprises. Always captivating is the 5700+ square foot dungeon space to explore, socialize, and play in.

LOCKED
(mystique@sfcitadel.org)
Locked is an M/s, D/s, or "Leather" protocol-focused party for couples, triads, or other relationship groupings. (Permanent, long-term, or just for the night.) Locked offers rotating party themes to inspire your play, based on different models of M/s, D/s and protocol. However, to maintain the focus on interpersonal M/s & D/s dynamics, you must attend Locked parties as part of a formal group. (couple, triad, etc, temporary or otherwise). People of all gender and sexual identities are welcome!

  • Mastery: Friday, January 30 - Training for Mastery and Martial Disciplines
  • Divinity: Friday, April 11 – Spirituality and Kink
  • Victoria’s Parlor: Saturday, July 18 – Etiquette styles from the Victorian Age
  • Semper Fi: Friday, October 16 – Protocol Military-style

TRYST
(tryst@sfcitadel.org)
Singles Party - Miss Cynthia & Miss Deb host "Tryst", a new specialty party for those who consider themselves to be "on the market" for new dating partners. This is a pansexual party that caters to both the monogamous and polyamorous communities.

  • May 15, 2009
  • July 31, 2009
  • December 18, 2009

BENT
(bent.sf@gmail.com)
Bent is a Citadel youth party, for individuals age 18, 19, 20's and 30's.  This party has an energetic vibe and is perfect for those young people new to the BDSM scene who wish to explore and meet others in a safe, casual and fun environment. Past themes have included Uniformity, Superstitions, South Seas Pirates, Running with Scissors and much more.


FLASH
(flash@sfcitadel.org)
Flash parties offer the unique opportunity to document your debaucherous experience in a Dungeon on camera.  This party is exception because it is the only time photography is allowed within the dungeon area. (Please note that expressed permission from all individuals in any photo is required) The house photographer will be on hand to offer prints of your favorite photos for a small fee, or you may bring your own cameras.