SFCitadel

LOCKED

Your Hosts for 'Locked' are: bethie, DaddyDarin and Maestro Stefanos
Resources: http://fetlife.com/groups/2458
Information: locked@sfcitadel.org

Locked is an M/s, D/s, and protocol focused party for couples, triads, or other relationship groupings. (Permanent, long-term, or just for the night.) Locked offers rotating party themes to inspire your play, based on different models of M/s, D/s and protocol. However, to maintain the focus on interpersonal M/s & D/s dynamics, you must attend Locked parties as part of a formal group. (couple, triad, etc, temporary or otherwise). People of all gender and sexual identities are welcome!


Locked events are intended to create an opportunity for Dominants to receive, and submissives to provide service. Locked events allow participants to explore different models of power exchange, protocol and service. The events are based on 4 rotating themes that address different aspects of more formal BDSM. These themes are etiquette, protocol, training, and spirituality. Each event features a short class on the evening's theme followed by a play party. Each play party includes a three course menu, an interactive event (limited participation) and a demonstration of the theme.

Locked is an all-inclusive party group; people of all gender and sexual identities are welcome! However, because the focus of these events is on power exchange dynamics in BDSM relationships, you must attend Locked parties as a couple, triad, etc (temporary or otherwise). We encourage single players to look to "Tryst" as a partner-finding resource prior to Locked events.

In order to maintain the formal atmosphere of this play style, we respectfully ask the following of our honored guests:

  1. Dominants, please adorn your submissive with a recognizable symbol of your ownership.
    • We are happy to provide you with a temporary collar to place on your submissive if you are unable to provide one for the evening.
  2. Please refrain from addressing another person's submissive/slave directly without prior permission from their Dominant.
  3. Dominants, please instruct your submissives or slaves not to speak to anyone without prior permission.

Participation in the evening's theme is encouraged but not required. Semi formal to formal fetish attire is requested.

Email: locked@sfcitadel.org for work exchange, questions or comments